after reading lots of logs I found out the there is no 'python.h' on my machine so you would just install it
ubuntu
sudo apt update
sudo apt install python3-dev
fedora
sudo dnf install python3-devel
I hope this was helpful
In the Plone documentation, "Get Started" section: Installing Plone - Prerequisites for Installation
thank you for your comment.
I followed the Prerequisites for installation on fedora but for some reason the python3-devel package have not been installed which made a problem during the build giving me this error
Building wheel for Pillow (pyproject.toml) did not run successfully. │ exit code: 1
so I decide to share as it may help any one.
There's an issue with Pillow that is documented in the note.
However, this error sounds slightly different. If you can reliably reproduce this issue including all the steps required (you can uninstall what you installed to start clean), and document it including all steps and OS version, I'd review a PR to the documentation.
I'm pretty sure that the Plone installation via Cookieplone documentation is thorough, but I don't know if anyone tried on Fedora. Ubuntu and Debian seem to be used more often.
ok, I will do it tomorrow after collage
fedora training install
I used a fresh fedora 39 VM
backend => the problem is with pillow prerequisites the best way to solve this problem is to install the external libs needed from Building From Source - Pillow (PIL Fork) 11.2.0.dev0 documentation all of this is after installing the prerequisites from "Install Plone with Cookieplone" page.
the last time was an older vm so it has alot of libs already installed and only python-devel was needed. this time I needed to install all of them 
frontend => just works with no problem